This morning, I was talking on the phone to a friend who recently had surgery. He was telling me what a struggle it was to overcome the pain, to have to move around when everything hurt, and to believe that everything was turning out just fine. Then he told me that in moments when he was feeling particularly down, he would talk to his dog, and she would listen attentively and then lick his hand until he started to feel better. He said that his dog gave him more comfort than his family and more comfort than the advice of the medical professionals who were treating him.
After I finished the phone converstation, I thought about what my friend said. In this respect, he was not an isolated case. Many of us talk to our dogs, and feel that we get love and concern, if not actual understanding, for our problems. Studies have shown that people's blood pressure, breathing rate and heart rate go down when they stroke a dog, and they generally become calmer. Other studies have shown that people who have pets tend to live longer than people who do not have any animals in their household. The idea of therapy dogs is relatively new, the idea that dogs can come into hospitals and retirement facilities and interact with residents, but it seems to be paying off in terms of people feeling better when they connect with a dog. Dogs offer love without any strings attached, and sometimes it is easier to love a dog than it is to love a person.
And yet that love does not seem to extend to other animals. The dog's closest genetic relative, the wolf, is often pictured as an object of fear. Despite the fact that there are very few documented cases of wolves actually attacking people, the popular conception paints them as animals who are just slavering to tear apart any person who happens to lose his or her way in the woods. I saw an early 20th century Russian plate recently on TV that depicted a troika (three horses pulling a sleigh) being chased by a pack of fierce wolves, with the driver of the troika frantically flogging the horses so that he would not be savaged by the hungry man-eating predators.
While I have never encountered any wolves in the wild, I have found leopard tracks circling around my tent in Africa, and had lions roar within 100 meters (300 feet) of my camp on starry African nights. All it would have taken would have been a single claw to rip through my tent, or a simple lunge by a lion to grab me while I slept. Yet here I am, still uneaten.
As we huddle in our cities, we are losing our connection with Nature, and are substituting fear of the natural world for a deeper connection that we once might have had. Perhaps our love of dogs is a symbolic vestige of a connection that we once had with all animals, when we might have understood that most animals were concerned with their own lives and were not out to get us.
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